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you’re acting small to make them comfortable…STOP!

  WE NEED TO TALK—yeah, we need to talk! We need to have that discussion about why you are ruining your life for free, why you’re not making your life seem like an important thing to you. I want to ask you something: don’t you have something better to do with your time? Don’t you think you could actually pour the time you’re using to serve others—the time you’re using to please others—into something that would give you returns in your own life? Why do you feel the need to avoid offending people the way you do? This is me literally talking to my own self, my own younger self. This is me giving advice—even an ad, to be honest. I’m not a therapist, but I have a lot of things I can say that can actually help you and save you from wasting years of your life. You don’t want to be that person, all in the name of wanting to be kind. If you'd love a more DETAILED form of this topic, I have a full 20 minute+ video on it over on YouTube, so you can click below to take you there: The Hard Trut...

You’re Not Lazy, You Just Love to Procrastinate!

  You’re Not Lazy, You Just Love to Procrastinate! Picture this: You have an assignment that’s due in 10 hours. At first, 10 hours seems like a lot of time, so you let yourself scroll on TikTok for an hour—you know, just one hour of innocent scrolling won’t hurt. But, wait! 4 hours have gone by, miraculously! Then you suddenly remember the assignment and think, “I still have 6 hours left—plenty of time!” Then, you scroll some more, chat with friends, watch your favorite show and suddenly, you’re down to just 1 hour left, the FINAL HOUR! This, my friend, is the DOOM OF PROCRASTINATION! This Post is divided into 4 Chapters for easy navigation: What is Procrastination (which I just cleared) Why We Procrastinate What Procrastination Causes How to Beat Procrastination Feel free to jump to any section that interests you! If you'd love a more DETAILED form of this topic, I have a full 20 minute+ video on it over on YouTube, so you can click below to take you there: Chapter 1: What Is...

Why You Study So Hard and still get BAD results (and how to FIX IT!)

You study for 6 hours on end, nonstop. You do that every day, with no breaks in between. But when exam season comes and your results come out, your grades are nothing to write home about. Even the people who didn’t seem like they “read” as much as you did had better grades than you. This has happened to you every semester without fail, and at this point, you even feel… you may be cursed. I’m going to be telling you 8 reasons why this keeps happening to you and how you can get yourself out of that mess. Let’s get started: But if you’d love to listen to this in a video format which is definitely MORE INTERACTIVE (I recommend ☺️), you can watch it by clicking the link below, it’d take you straight to YouTube where you can do that: 1. You’re Trying to Do Too Much at the Same Time Success is not in doing too much—it’s in doing the most important things with all of your effort and time. Studying physics, mathematics, and psychology all at the same time? Chill. You’re overwhelming yoursel...

8 Steps to Become FINANCIALLY FREE in 2025

Managing your money wisely isn’t reserved for high-income earners—it’s a lifelong skill that you can start developing today. Whether you’re a student, just starting your career, or simply looking for ways to make your money work harder for you, these practical tips will help you take control of your finances. But if you’d love to listen to this in a video format which is definitely MORE INTERACTIVE (I recommend ☺️), you can watch it by clicking the link below, it’d take you straight to YouTube where you can do that: Let’s get right into the post! 1. Set a Budget and Stick to It Budgeting is more than an “adult thing”—it’s a tool for financial freedom. No matter how small your income, having a clear plan for where your money goes can prevent end-of-month surprises and financial stress. Start small, even if you rely on your parents or other support, because there will come a time when you need to stand on your own. How to Create a Budget: • Track Your Income and Expenses: Understand...

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