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EXPECTATIONS

     What a great day to explore😄!!!What's up guys? Welcome back to my forum.Today,I'm actually going to be talking on something we do all the time.I want you all to sit back, stick around,read to your pleasure and expect the best from this piece.Stay blessed,stay beautiful and stay mo-ti-va-ted.

"I was so confident that nothing could stop me
from winning the race until Jude defeated me"

That above expression connotes the essence of this topic. Expectations!!!
"It is a definite act of anticipation, the belief that something will happen"


     How do we really feel as expectants? Sometimes, what we expect happens,at times,it takes a really long time and most times,IT NEVER HAPPENS. The whole process of expectation begins from YOU,deep down within you. The effects of expectation may turn out to be far more complicated and intertwined than you think.
     It's been proven scientifically that the way in which we expect something often turns out to greatly affect the final outcome of the situation. Due to this fact, our expectations are the coming attractions of our existence. Our self-expectations do not only affect our lives,but the ones we hold about other people affects their life issues too. When someone behaves in a way to you, you think it is because "you already know who he/she is" not knowing that it's the kind of expectation you hold towards the person that invoked such reaction. I believe that you're all beginning to understand how expectations affects you,your environment also including the people surrounding you.

"If you do not expect any thing from anyone,
never can you be disappointed... "

     No one can absolutely live up to your expectations and never can you also live up to anyone else's. We are all embarking on different life journeys therefore making we humans insatiable (never satisfied). The ultimate secret to maintaining a good self-esteem is to lower your expectations. I want to implore you to never live your life bounded by expectations, as it often yields disappointment, agony and sorrow. Don't make life seem more complicated by bringing great burdens upon yourself.

WHAT HAPPENS WHEN WE DON'T RECEIVE WHAT WE HAVE HIGHLY HOPED FOR?

we go☺ or 😖 or 😭 or 🙅
     Yeah,people indeed go through varieties of mood swings. Do you smile and get over it? Do you become sad at heart for the moment? Do you cry and wished you never expected?or Do you get furious at yourself and let down your hopes?
     But one ultimate, general feeling that we all really feel is devastation. We actually tend to be disheartened and this makes our life seem heavier and more complicated to handle. I am not totally discouraging us from being expectant but one thing you should never do is placing too high hopes on something,anything at all.
     Of course,looking forward to receiving something you want is already getting half of its pleasure. On the long run, you may not obtain those things but nothing can prevent you from having the fun of looking forward to them. Your expectations can only come to an end in heaven. We can also liken our expectations to an egg.The harder you hold on to it,the more it cracks. I'm implying that you should never give up on your expectations so easily because nothing is impossible as long as there's an hope of expectation.

"Real sadness lies in the boundary between our talents and expectations"

      Shedding more light on this expression above,it's deduced that you're just one step away from living up to your expectations. Just by embracing your God given talents and making the most out of them,that's all you need to do to experience the unexpected. Improve on your level of performance to meet up to your expectations. Expect the best from yourself and then make the necessary to make the unexpected a reality.If you refuse to settle for nothing but the best,you will eventually end up being the best(I have really found this aspect of life very funny and twisted).
     Expectations are often seen in various aspects of our lives and it shows up itself when we show kindness to others too. When we express kindness, never expect a reward so as to in turn,receive from the unexpected. There are two major sides to expectations generally (the frustrating aspect and the promising part of it). I really hope that I was able to sandwich those two aspects for your better understanding.
     I have been expecting, you have been expecting.... But I strongly hope and pray that your expectations will never be cut off and may it never bring you anything disheartening but JOY 😁.I really appreciate your patience and support towards me,you've really been a pillar of strength to me. You remain my ever priceless expectant friends,loads of love.

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