Not feeling enough

   

99% of a fully complete 100% day,I’m not feeling enough. Either to someone,in a group of people.......even social media,makes me feel not enough at times. I know that there are a lot of people like me,probably seeing this right now or not,not feeling good enough,not feeling accepted,not feeling loved like they should be...honestly,there are people out there battling with this but look here,friend,you must know that
           “...no one can define you but you...”
    A university graduate(out of school for about 3 years now)goes out of his house on a beautiful,sunny Saturday morning,trekking in the hot sun. As he keeps walking down the street,he hears the incessant sound of a car horn. The non-stop sound of the horn was to holla at him,the car then came to a halt in front of him . As he stepped forward to see who it was,lo and behold;it was his University classmate!
           “...I hope y’all are still with me”
Can you even imagine how you’d feel in that type of scenario? Can you quantify the amount of shame that would’ve befallen the guy? To be honest, I won’t even want to talk to that classmate if I were the guy.
   You (reading this post) may be “the guy” I’m referring to. You’re probably feeling “not enough”,like you’re not meeting standards or you don’t amount to something. Let me stop you right there and tell you that you are that next big thing.
     Now to the real OT on how to tackle this feeling!
I’ve been doing something lately that has seemingly proven to be effective,I didn’t also believe it could work until I tried it out. I’ve been working more on building myself up. Simple!
   “No one can define you but you
    Only you can define you
    Only you can tackle you
     Only you can find you”
You know,I bless the Almighty for his ways. God never leaves anyone un-endowed,everyone is wonderfully and bountifully made. Now,the only job left for you by God is to find that beauty already installed in you,by yourself (note the keyword:YOURSELF). No one else can do it like you. A lot of us do not even know that we have lots of job to do finding ourselves.
      In finding yourself,
*you discover your talents
 *you build yourself up in those talent areas,
 *you save yourself the time spent in doing things not meant for you
*you find your inner peace
*you blossom into your prosperity and success
       and before you know it,you’re already the big thing!
     So,with this,I hope you’re ready to join me in this self-hunt(the name-lol). I’m not giving you a 100% guarantee that it’s going to be fun and smooth all through but trust me,it’s worth the work.
      Till next time friends,Byeeeee 💕