Folakemi Oluduro

You really do find it hard to do the right thing sometimes,don’t you? Sigh...it’s not only you,my friend.  ‘ ...The right type of audience and your own mindset is key...’      In the real sense,It actually doesn’t cost you a thing,nothing,to do the right thing and better yourself.You really just have to get the right type of audience and develop the right mindset and trust me,you sure would have your cake right in the bag.Whatever people(I mean the right ones,don’t blame me....there are the wrong ones too. I bet you know that already) are telling you,be it your friends,family,work partners or even schoolmates; may just be the missing ingredient in your life. Don’t always think everyone is out there to seek your downfall or whatever you may term it. Some people are actually out there to help guide you and lead you to the right turning .      This is where a lot of us have missed it in this world and trust me,some people may never find the...

       For a lot of people,independence may mean of lot of things. Like,some people feel it’s freedom from school-work,from parental hustle and orderings,from maybe your friends, or even from your spouse. But all these highlights surmount to one thing in my head, what?? You may think.      ... independence is the freedom from one’s default mindset .  Personally,that is what I feel about this subject matter in discussion.      Actually,a lot of people have different thinkings. We cannot all think in the same direction,cos that’d actually be weird. Without diverse thinkings in this world,we’d actually all be gone. But back to the subject,our thinkings actually affect the way see things. For example,let’s look into the case of a teenage boy. He gets home from a long day at school just for his parents to order him around..’go do this! Go do that!!..’ the stress of school combined with these extra hurdles at home mak...

     A lot of us just keep looking down on ourselves and I dunno why. It’s really crazy the way this is going in the world today,a lot of people have just been let down;dreams shattered ;hopes let down just cos they think they are less than someone else. Let me just tell you something,there’s no one..I repeat no one can ever beat you in this world,no one can compare to your best version. I know there are a lot of times when we may feel shitty about ourselves but never let that phase get the best outta you.     So,I have been lazy to even bullet some points...I just think it and write it at that same point,God save my soul. I already thought some points down so imma just give you now: 1. Look GOOD: Your outer appearance has a lot lot lot to do with the way you look at yourself. Have you ever noticed that whenever you look damn good and take a peek at yourself in the mirror,you always feel that extra topping of confidence. I dunno if you’re following m...

 Yo,my heart was in the lagoon thinking I was gonna be duped but y'all, twas actually worth trying ...Me be thinking that online shopping was like more expensive and 'un-trusted',and that me being the extra-picky type,I wasn't ready to take no chances, not at all .You may be thinking,what site did she shop on? It's Jumia ,a trusted and verified online store.     I mean,who wouldn't want to shop online? It's hassle-free,no gas expended,no unnecessary receptionist talks,no waiting on any dumb-ass queues( oh,how I hate queues!!! )...so much more benefits all in the comfort of your sweatpants,literally your sweatpants...     So back to my story,I got on Jumia and looked for what i wanted..got tons of suggestions from different sellers.To enjoy safe online shopping;always always always read reviews(most important ),check ratings and check number of sales from the seller .Yeah,so i did those,after a lot scrutinizing(mehn,I say the struggle was real);I finall...

    So people,I know y'all be thinking your girl has been gone for long but you know,being a freshman on campus is something else so that chapter has been hindering me from doing this. So,any slight opportunity for me to post is easily grabbed just like now,but I'd try my best to be consistent with this.     So yeah,today is taking another dimension cos we all do this thing and it's like freaking annoying but we can't avoid it. A messed up closet,wardrobe or whatever you call it is like Goddd,annoying. I personally is almost always moved to tears when I see my wardrobe disarranged. Whew,another hard work for me..      You know,when you're just on the radar and you're on the quick need for something quick to wear(meanwhile, I'm always like that)..ain't nobody got such time for being careful. But today, like right now, I've got a few arrangement schemes that we can follow. It's just a sample piece from the basic me to you, it's not like am a...

HOW TO:BE DETERMINED AND REMAIN DETERMINED Determination … .,said to be the peak of every successful person ’ s strategy, can either be the fall or rise of a person due to its crucial nature. Once you ’ re determined and prepared,anything(I mean anything) can happen even when it kinda seems impossible. Well,I ’ d say that we ’ ve all been there..that climax point when it seems all is crumbling.But not to worry cos I have some important keys that ’ ll enlighten you on how to stay on the line and keep on being determined. l   Speak that sh*t into existence Photocredit:Giphy You   know what my friend..For whatever it is that you want to do,you gotta stand up to your feet and speak that shit out into existence.Like,you're not just gonna lie down in bed and expect all things to fall in place,nahhh bruhhh … it never works like that.I mean in this context " Speaking is Happening " . Look yourself in the mirror,lay your hands on your chest,shoulders high..like ,...