Folakemi Oluduro

    99% of a fully complete 100% day,I’m not feeling enough. Either to someone,in a group of people.......even social media,makes me feel not enough at times. I know that there are a lot of people like me,probably seeing this right now or not,not feeling good enough,not feeling accepted,not feeling loved like they should be...honestly,there are people out there battling with this but look here,friend,you must know that            “...no one can define you but you...”     A university graduate(out of school for about 3 years now)goes out of his house on a beautiful,sunny Saturday morning,trekking in the hot sun. As he keeps walking down the street,he hears the incessant sound of a car horn. The non-stop sound of the horn was to holla at him,the car then came to a halt in front of him . As he stepped forward to see who it was,lo and behold;it was his University classmate!            “ ...I hope y’all a...

Your future? My future? Who knows?! But everyone is bothered about it,stunning right? The fact that I’m bothered about something that hasn’t even happened is a big deal to reckon with,honestly,it is. Right now,Out there,someone is thinking: “what if I fall short in my academics?” “what if I end up poverty-stricken?”. I,myself,have the thought of “what if no one reads my post?”.So many‘what if’s’. Lots of thoughts are crossing your mind right now,relating to different life issues which may regard your finance,marriage,academics,career,adulthood...etc,but all these areas are capped under the label “ Future ”,and I don’t mean future the rapper,lol. What I want you to understand is, whatever it is in your future you’re worried about,you can change it! Quote me anywhere. But then,there is also one great key tool you need to take hold of for this change to happen: “your thoughts”. Your thoughts have a great role to play in mapping out your future . I know, I know; you’re ...

You really do find it hard to do the right thing sometimes,don’t you? Sigh...it’s not only you,my friend.  ‘ ...The right type of audience and your own mindset is key...’      In the real sense,It actually doesn’t cost you a thing,nothing,to do the right thing and better yourself.You really just have to get the right type of audience and develop the right mindset and trust me,you sure would have your cake right in the bag.Whatever people(I mean the right ones,don’t blame me....there are the wrong ones too. I bet you know that already) are telling you,be it your friends,family,work partners or even schoolmates; may just be the missing ingredient in your life. Don’t always think everyone is out there to seek your downfall or whatever you may term it. Some people are actually out there to help guide you and lead you to the right turning .      This is where a lot of us have missed it in this world and trust me,some people may never find the...

       For a lot of people,independence may mean of lot of things. Like,some people feel it’s freedom from school-work,from parental hustle and orderings,from maybe your friends, or even from your spouse. But all these highlights surmount to one thing in my head, what?? You may think.      ... independence is the freedom from one’s default mindset .  Personally,that is what I feel about this subject matter in discussion.      Actually,a lot of people have different thinkings. We cannot all think in the same direction,cos that’d actually be weird. Without diverse thinkings in this world,we’d actually all be gone. But back to the subject,our thinkings actually affect the way see things. For example,let’s look into the case of a teenage boy. He gets home from a long day at school just for his parents to order him around..’go do this! Go do that!!..’ the stress of school combined with these extra hurdles at home mak...

     A lot of us just keep looking down on ourselves and I dunno why. It’s really crazy the way this is going in the world today,a lot of people have just been let down;dreams shattered ;hopes let down just cos they think they are less than someone else. Let me just tell you something,there’s no one..I repeat no one can ever beat you in this world,no one can compare to your best version. I know there are a lot of times when we may feel shitty about ourselves but never let that phase get the best outta you.     So,I have been lazy to even bullet some points...I just think it and write it at that same point,God save my soul. I already thought some points down so imma just give you now: 1. Look GOOD: Your outer appearance has a lot lot lot to do with the way you look at yourself. Have you ever noticed that whenever you look damn good and take a peek at yourself in the mirror,you always feel that extra topping of confidence. I dunno if you’re following m...

 Yo,my heart was in the lagoon thinking I was gonna be duped but y'all, twas actually worth trying ...Me be thinking that online shopping was like more expensive and 'un-trusted',and that me being the extra-picky type,I wasn't ready to take no chances, not at all .You may be thinking,what site did she shop on? It's Jumia ,a trusted and verified online store.     I mean,who wouldn't want to shop online? It's hassle-free,no gas expended,no unnecessary receptionist talks,no waiting on any dumb-ass queues( oh,how I hate queues!!! )...so much more benefits all in the comfort of your sweatpants,literally your sweatpants...     So back to my story,I got on Jumia and looked for what i wanted..got tons of suggestions from different sellers.To enjoy safe online shopping;always always always read reviews(most important ),check ratings and check number of sales from the seller .Yeah,so i did those,after a lot scrutinizing(mehn,I say the struggle was real);I finall...